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A therapist who tells you the truth — and stays with you in it.

Warm. Direct. Evidence-based. Built around your pace, not a script.

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Hi, I'm Stacey

Before you book, meet me first.

Choosing a therapist is a big ask of your trust. So here's a short video — no script, no stock footage. Press play and see whether my voice feels like someone you could talk to.

If it does, the next step is a free 15-minute consult. If it doesn't, that's genuinely okay — fit matters more than anything on this page.

5+Years of clinical practice
7,000+Direct client hours
3States licensed to serve
EMDRTrained in trauma reprocessing

The short version of my story.

I'm a National Certified Counselor (NCC) and Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor (CCMHC) specializing in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and trauma-informed care. I'm the founder of Modern Trauma & EMDR Counseling, and I've spent over 5 years and 7,000+ hours in outpatient and telehealth settings helping people heal, grow, and reclaim their lives.

This practice is not about surface-level symptom management. We look at the root causes of distress — so you can build coping that actually holds, and safely process the experiences that are still running the show.

If therapy has felt like one long vent session that never went anywhere, I built this for you. We'll be honest with each other. We'll go at a pace your nervous system can handle. And we won't pretend talking about it is the same as changing it.

I work with teens, college students, young adults, high-achieving women, and families — by private, secure telehealth — licensed for residents of New Jersey, Virginia, and North Carolina.

Stacey Damkohler, EMDR therapist
“Healing begins with hope. And every step forward is a step toward the life you deserve.”
Stacey Damkohler, MA, LPC, LCMHC, NCC, CCMHC · Founder

Licenses & certifications.

Every license below is public and verifiable. If you'd like to check any of them with the issuing board before we start, please do — that's exactly what they're for.

NJ
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) New Jersey State Board of Professional Counselors
Lic. 37PC01138700
VA
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) Virginia Board of Counseling
Lic. 0701015759
NC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) North Carolina Board of Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors
Lic. 21307
NBCC
National Certified Counselor (NCC) National Board for Certified Counselors · certified since 2022
Cert. 1627944
NBCC
Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor (CCMHC) National Board for Certified Counselors
Cert. 1627944

Education & training.

  • MA, Clinical Mental Health Counseling
  • EMDR trained — trauma, PTSD, anxiety, grief, and relationship wounds
  • 5+ years and 7,000+ hours of direct clinical experience across outpatient and telehealth care
A ceramic mug of coffee on a sunlit wooden table

Therapy from the place you already feel safest.

Private, HIPAA-compliant video

Ready when you are.

Free 15-minute consult — meet me, ask anything, and see if it feels right. Zero pressure.

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